We all have a time and place we had a traumatic experience where we could not anticipate of moving forward. I know a person who failed in front of VCs while presenting his start up and promised never to go public again;  people who failed classes once and fear never to be at school. I know kids who were bullied at school and hate learning for it. The world is created that way. The media celebrates who succeeds and hates who fails. People don’t let go the past for three main reasons 1- The past has some horror in it. I once was emotional in front of a friend telling him how I hate my little perfect looking life. I was terribly worried of the how the future turns out to be thinking of my shaky past. He immediately stopped me and told me that I have two choices in…